Life Is Scary


“Life is scary. Get used to it. There are no magical fixes. It’s all up to you. So get up off your keister, get out of here, and go start doin’ the work. Nothing in this world that’s worth having comes easy.” – Bob Kelso


No, I Will Not Feel Bad About Eating An Entire Pizza


Quit lookin at those last few slices and feeling bad about wanting them. You’ve got that Cosmopolitan magazine staring back at you with the words “new diet plan”, “check out Kendall Jenners’ crazy workouts”, or see a picture of a super edited good looking celeb on the cover.

Just think, “please, I could be on that cover if I wanted to.” There are so many images that are being thrown at you everyday showing you the way that you should look. How else are we supposed to think when all we know is what we are constantly exposed to?

Don’t get me wrong, I am definitely into living a healthy lifestyle and loving my body but that doesn’t mean I should feel bad when I want to indulge every once in a while. So no, I am not going to feel bad about eating that entire pizza. I will not make myself feel worse by looking at how many calories it is or how much fat is in it.

Yes, I do typically make healthy decisions but that lets me know that if I am craving some cookies or a pizza, I’m not gonna give a s*** when I reach for it.

Oh yeah, trust me, you’ll probably reach for the last slice and then all of a sudden see a commercial come on for Victoria’s Secret or Calvin Klein and just for a split second, you look down and think, is it worth it. STOP. IT TOTALLY IS.

There are girls as young as 6 thinking about their bodies and worrying that they’re too fat or not pretty enough. This sickens me in so many ways because they shouldn’t have to feel that way or have to be exposed to the “ideal body” every corner they turn.

If you want some freakn’ ice cream, girl you go for it. Guys too. I talk like this whole thing is meant to target girls but guys, I know you think the same way. Maybe not as bad, but I totally get it.

“Sometimes I’m running and get passed by a 70-year-old woman with a better body. I can’t be skinny all the time. I like to drink and I like to eat. I like burgers and bagels.” – Chelsea Handler

My biggest advice to people is to quit comparing yourself to everyone. If everyone was the same, life would be absolutely boring as hell. I do occasionally will look at a beautiful looking person and think wow, I want her this or that but that doesn’t mean I think of myself any less.

Honestly, this is not original and you’ve probably heard it a million times but confidence is truly the sexiest thing a girl can wear. You could be the happiest person in the world even though you can feel a zit growing on your face or you aren’t really fond of a few little insecurities.

Every damn person on earth has at least some insecurities. I’m sure even Zayn Malik has insecurities and LOOK AT HIM. He probably hates his feet for some reason or doesn’t like his hairline who the hell knows. But none of us would ever think about that because we look past those stupid tiny aspects on people.

Just because you hate the way your body is shaped, or you hate your voice doesn’t mean everyone else does. There are people who might love those things about you!

And don’t feel bad about trying to better yourself either. These are two completely different concepts. Just being confident in everything that is about you will make you a thousand times happier with life and with yourself.

So get down, live life, get up, twerk, blast some music, eat an entire tub of Ben and Jerry’s half baked ice cream, do whatever the hell you want. Go buy a plane ticket for all I care with the money you don’t have (or do, I mean, I don’t but I’d probably buy the ticket anyways)… JUST LOVE YOURSELF YOU BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEINGS.

Thanks again for reading guys, I appreciate you all so much for taking the time to go through my articles! Let me know if you have any questions, comments, want me to write about something specific or just want to have a chat, I’m more than willing to take the time to do that! As always,

Peace & Blessings

Abby ❤


Here’s To The Crazy Ones


“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” – Steve Jobs

Just Take A Drive


Road trips. You either hate them or you love them. Or you really don’t care and just sleep the whole way. I’m in the mix of people who absolutely love road trips. It honestly doesn’t even matter where I’m going!

When I think of road trips, I think wind in my hair, music blasting, and a bunch of sights to see.

They also help to get my mind off everything. Like my earlier article about naps, road trips are another way to get all that stress off your shoulders.

You see a lot of times in movies when people get super angry at their kids or about their job and they get in their car and just drive off. Then it usually gets super dramatic and the driver starts to cry or some other scene starts up I don’t know.

Even if you have a destination in mind though, the car ride always helps to get you to breathe and get some fresh air with the windows wide open.

Sometimes all you need to do is just get away from friends and spend some time with yourself. 

There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting time for yourself, it’s actually healthy. I believe the best way to truly know who you are is to spend more time with yourself.

“We live in a very tense society.  We are pulled apart… and we all need to learn how to pull ourselves together…. I think that at least part of the answer lies in solitude.” – Helen Hayes

I think many of us are afraid to either find out who we are or are to afraid to find out that it’s not the person we want to be.

There are so many expectations placed on everyone today that sometimes its nice to not feel that excess weight on your shoulders when in public.

It’s the same feeling as coming home from school or work and ripping those clothes off, getting into something comfortable, and doing what you want to do and engaging in something you enjoy.

You don’t even care if it’s the most embarrassing thing in the world because the only person in the room with you is yourself and you for sure know you’re not going to judge!

It’s also nice to feel in control of everything.

You’re behind the wheel, you control the radio, the windows, the air conditioning. There’s no need for slapping hands when you’re the only one in the car.

Actually, my all time favorite part of driving long distances alone is that I get to think. I sometimes come up with my best ideas for an article to write next. (This one) 🙂

Stop trying to figure everything out at once and take a deep breath! Driving by yourself is a great way to get some air and freaking breathe.

Driving also cures that insane boredom. Don’t have anything to do? Don’t know what to do?  Clear the mind with a simple drive.

Grab the keys, you’re goin for a ride of pure solitude.

Thanks for reading guys! I’m so sorry I have not been putting up as many articles or quotes, I’ve had a lot going on lately but no worries, I’ll do my best to keep it consistent!

Let me know down in the comments if you want me to write about anything specifically or if you just want to let me know your opinions! Again, I post motivational quotes on the daily and articles mostly every Friday and Monday!

Peace & Blessings ❤