Quit lookin at those last few slices and feeling bad about wanting them. You’ve got that Cosmopolitan magazine staring back at you with the words “new diet plan”, “check out Kendall Jenners’ crazy workouts”, or see a picture of a super edited good looking celeb on the cover.
Just think, “please, I could be on that cover if I wanted to.” There are so many images that are being thrown at you everyday showing you the way that you should look. How else are we supposed to think when all we know is what we are constantly exposed to?
Don’t get me wrong, I am definitely into living a healthy lifestyle and loving my body but that doesn’t mean I should feel bad when I want to indulge every once in a while. So no, I am not going to feel bad about eating that entire pizza. I will not make myself feel worse by looking at how many calories it is or how much fat is in it.
Yes, I do typically make healthy decisions but that lets me know that if I am craving some cookies or a pizza, I’m not gonna give a s*** when I reach for it.
Oh yeah, trust me, you’ll probably reach for the last slice and then all of a sudden see a commercial come on for Victoria’s Secret or Calvin Klein and just for a split second, you look down and think, is it worth it. STOP. IT TOTALLY IS.
There are girls as young as 6 thinking about their bodies and worrying that they’re too fat or not pretty enough. This sickens me in so many ways because they shouldn’t have to feel that way or have to be exposed to the “ideal body” every corner they turn.
If you want some freakn’ ice cream, girl you go for it. Guys too. I talk like this whole thing is meant to target girls but guys, I know you think the same way. Maybe not as bad, but I totally get it.
“Sometimes I’m running and get passed by a 70-year-old woman with a better body. I can’t be skinny all the time. I like to drink and I like to eat. I like burgers and bagels.” – Chelsea Handler
My biggest advice to people is to quit comparing yourself to everyone. If everyone was the same, life would be absolutely boring as hell. I do occasionally will look at a beautiful looking person and think wow, I want her this or that but that doesn’t mean I think of myself any less.
Honestly, this is not original and you’ve probably heard it a million times but confidence is truly the sexiest thing a girl can wear. You could be the happiest person in the world even though you can feel a zit growing on your face or you aren’t really fond of a few little insecurities.
Every damn person on earth has at least some insecurities. I’m sure even Zayn Malik has insecurities and LOOK AT HIM. He probably hates his feet for some reason or doesn’t like his hairline who the hell knows. But none of us would ever think about that because we look past those stupid tiny aspects on people.
Just because you hate the way your body is shaped, or you hate your voice doesn’t mean everyone else does. There are people who might love those things about you!
And don’t feel bad about trying to better yourself either. These are two completely different concepts. Just being confident in everything that is about you will make you a thousand times happier with life and with yourself.
So get down, live life, get up, twerk, blast some music, eat an entire tub of Ben and Jerry’s half baked ice cream, do whatever the hell you want. Go buy a plane ticket for all I care with the money you don’t have (or do, I mean, I don’t but I’d probably buy the ticket anyways)… JUST LOVE YOURSELF YOU BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEINGS.
Thanks again for reading guys, I appreciate you all so much for taking the time to go through my articles! Let me know if you have any questions, comments, want me to write about something specific or just want to have a chat, I’m more than willing to take the time to do that! As always,
Peace & Blessings